I see something, or hear a story and then my mind tries to find a conclusion, tries to judge, tries to say I know I know. My conclusion can be very true, very off, or ok enough. The same as anyone else. I think communication is an art. How much you manage to interact with one another with minimum casualties? This is not easy. If you have no conflict, no argument, etc you are either a master of communication and soft skills or you are leaving in your own cave with minimal interaction.