Wednesday, June 27, 2007

Why?????


Yesterday I recieved a bad news that two of my friends are getting divorced. When my husband told me that, we were both shocked. I could not believe him. They were so in love with each other, a great couple that we always mentioned them as an example of successful couple. The first time that I met them they told me about their love story that how they met for the first time, very interesting and passionate story.

I still can’t believe they are going to get divorced. I heard different reasons, that why they want to be separated but none of them make sense to me. None of them are serious enough to convert the great romantic life to such an ending point.

It’s like 4 years that they have got married, and last and first time I saw them was last year. They gave Nima (my husband) and me series of small size books about secret of success in love. They were so nice and energetic. And now…

I can’t believe, I don’t want to believe…GOD please stop this…

5 comments:

Eilnaz said...

Hivaei,
There are many times in life that you hear something that is totaly different to what you feel or believe in reality. People might act very different infront of others inspite of their insides(truth).All this stories come and go but the fact is how you see them and how you will react in your own love story. The main thing is your relation is different and you make the best to be the best.

BEHI said...

When they come to this point,it shows that they were not truly in love in the first place;real passions make the "in love" couple to do any thing to make things up. when you love some body you cannot divorce him and the reason is not that complicated : because you cannot live without her/him.

Hiva said...

Eily, Behi you are both right. you know just it's really hard for me to see them apart. you know most of the time people get divorced because one of them betrayed or showed violent behaviour, or he/she is kind of addictive to alcholohol etc, I understand this. but if two persons be in love for 2-3 years and then said we don't match anymore, that's hard to undersatnd..

Pier said...
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Pier said...

It is not strange. Be sure that here were some problems at the very first beginning of their relation. Since they were in love and did not have the courage to breakup, these difficulties were just ignored and they 'hoped' that they can change him/her later.
Moreover, you cannot neglect the role of family in your marital life.